Medico Parador Holding

Fate or coincidence?

30.12.2011 ......

I am in the kitchen to prepare a sour roast because I expect in the evening guests.

It is 09.45 a.m. as my mobile phone rings. The display shows the caller ... my best friend.

"Later", I think .... and let it ring...
"I'll call back later, I will only place the roast, first."

"Later" the cell phone rang again and when i picked it up, somebody told me that my best friend had hanged herself.

The time of death 10.57 a.m.

by Gerd Altmann

State of shock - thousands thoughts, the one by the head lawn

Doubt - the position in question "that can not be" - " but sure not she"

"Now it seems, if someone is allowed as a very bad joke with you"

The feeling that they make sure "every moment she comes around the corner and everything is good"

"In a minute you will hear the key in the lock and her dog after you looking and yowl"

by Gerd Altmann

Apology - "what if only you could have gone to the mobile phone" - "did you have had the chance to prevent it?"

Inwardly you're shooting in a circle and have no chance to come down - thousands of questions in the head and not the answers.

You understand it not - can not understand it - looking for the motivation for and you're going in a circle but only because nobody answered your questions.

You mechanically reflexes as a remote robot and work everything necessary in connection with her death as in a trance.

by Gerd Altmann

Between again and again calls from the criminal police and crying & shocked friends, which have experienced what have had happened with her now.
A fraction of the new information which answer your questions confusion in your head.

You realize that your friends were powerless and you all still ask the question to yourselves "will it was enough what we did and have tried?"

Follow us in the dream the pictures - the questions - eliminates insomnia - only superficial doses at full lighting - panic in the darkness, because we have to worry that the images come back to haunt us - hours of discussions among themselves in the hope to find that one piece that all the pictures put together and it make any sense as one total - picture.

A sense so that all of us can understand what has happened.

After extensive research by all attending physicians is the trigger notes
B U R N O U T !!!

So it started ......

by Gerd Altmann

........ so it went on:

You have often heard the expression and taken note of but never really looked behind it - start to research - puts you very intensively with the topic.

Burnout what is that exactly? What options are there?

And there it is already started ... the memories will come back ...

Memories of "with your guided hours of conversations" - the rejection professional help because she do not wants to go into a "psychologic hospital" - "she just feels burned out but only" - "do not want to be with other mentally ill people locked up.", her statement was.

by Gerd Altmann

Are there alternatives to the usual instruction in the psychosomatic clinic? Is there a special burnout clinic?

In fact, there is one ....
ONE !!! In the whole of Europe.
In Switzerland - opened 2010 - now fully booked, and with a nice long waiting list.
With the numerous excellent reviews in such a short time have accumulated, but also only an pure clinic.
We friends know "even as she would with much, much good persuasion also did not go there... "

by Gerd Altmann

Meanwhile we had by many conversations in our experience, that in our expansive acquaintances have played many such incidents but have been silenced - of course people do not talk about ...
But by hushing up nothing will change!

by Gerd Altmann

We started to put together the facts of the us known cases now, of the reasons why they refused professional help and what kind of people they have had been:

- Manager, Banker & Executives
- No financial aspects were the decisive when suicide
- In fixed relations Live Private
- High requirements in the Job
- Emotions - Suicide

by Gerd Altmann

- More intimate stress with themselves
- Putting themselves under pressure without any real reason
- Shame to outing as a "burned out" and that in the job-to make tangible
- The fear that a longer treatment reflected in the curriculum vitae
- The resulting fear to be decommissioned and socially crashing
- Fear in a clinic "to be imprisoned" indefinitely
- Fear as "permanently sick" and therefore to be considered to be unemployed

by Gerd Altmann

The negative - facts into positive we have tried to return and this resulted is the basic for the development of the

"Medico Parador" - the different medical hotel clinic concept
We work with the hope that again not "later" is too late ...

"Sometimes, a one of the best friends, the death, and the bewilderment in with the associated pain, the inner thoughts and quiet even allegations show to you the way ..."©